You left the job, or the friendship, because of how you were treated, and now the same thing is starting again somewhere new. That isn't fate and it isn't something you deserve. Almost everybody has one situation that keeps repeating, and changing your circumstances doesn't stop it, because you're the one thing that comes with you to every new place. I explain why the pattern follows you and what the psychologist William Swann found about the people we choose to stay close to. Then I give you one question to ask the next time that sinking recognition arrives, and it isn't the question you've been asking.
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