The Anger Underneath Your Calm

By Monique Rhodes

June 17, 2026


There are two kinds of calm. Only one of them is actually calm.

If you have always been the steady one, the soft-voiced one, the one everyone goes to in a crisis, this episode might land differently than you expect. Because some of us are calm because we have worked through what we feel — and some of us are calm because we have spent decades sitting on it.

The difference matters. And it shows up, eventually, in the body.

In this episode:
— The two kinds of calm and how to tell them apart
— Why suppressed anger costs you your boundaries, your desire, and your aliveness
— What the body keeps on your behalf when you don't
— A small five-minute experiment to find out what you've been carrying
— What to do if what comes up is bigger than you expected

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