How to Stop Worrying About Things You Can’t Control

By Monique Rhodes

April 15, 2026


This week on In Your Right Mind, Monique digs into one of the most common sources of unnecessary suffering: worrying about things outside our control. Drawing on her time riding a motorcycle through India, a teaching from the Dalai Lama, and years of working with people on happiness and mental wellbeing, she walks through a practical two-list framework and a three-step process to interrupt the worry cycle — for real. If your mind won't stop running worst-case scenarios, this one's for you.

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