You've had the same argument with your sister forty times and never once out loud.
This usually gets filed under overthinking, and you've probably concluded you're anxious, or dramatic, or that you can't let things go. You're none of those. You're doing something extremely reasonable and completely impossible, and nobody has ever named it for you.
You're looking for the sentence that guarantees how the other person will react. That they won't be angry. That they'll finally understand. And there is no such sentence, which is exactly why you can rehearse the same four lines for two years and never get to the end of it.
I explain what to do instead, including the one line that replaces the entire rehearsal.
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