You sit down to meditate and you can’t do it. Your mind won’t slow, and sometimes you feel worse afterwards than you did before, so you quietly decide meditation isn’t for you. It is. What nobody told you is that a practice built for a settled mind can’t be started at an eight out of ten, and there’s a simple ninety second step that comes first.
In Your Right Mind
with Monique Rhodes
A Bite-Sized Podcast Packed with Inspiration and Wisdom
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Your life looks fine on paper. You can list everything you’re lucky to have, usually while lying awake at three in the morning. And you still feel flat, and then you feel ashamed of feeling flat. This one is about why gratitude has never once moved that feeling, what your nervous system has been doing with the dial all these years, and how joy actually comes back, which is nothing like what you’ve been led to expect.
If you’ve ever said “I’ve tried everything and nothing works,” this one is for you. There’s a reason the supplements, the apps, the journals and the early nights all helped for a fortnight and then stopped, and it has nothing to do with you being one of the ones it doesn’t work for. I’ll show you what every single thing on your list had in common, and the one ninety second practice that goes in completely the opposite direction.
This episode is about the strange anxiety that arrives not when life is hard, but when it starts to get genuinely good. If you’ve ever found yourself bracing, pulling back, or creating problems right when things were finally going well — this is for you. It’s not self-sabotage. It’s a nervous system that learned to stay ready.
If you’re the person everyone else leans on — the one who tracks, anticipates, and holds it all together — this episode is for you. We’re talking about the invisible cognitive weight of always being the responsible one, why it quietly erodes your sense of self, and what it actually takes to put something down.
When things are good, do you find yourself bracing for what’s coming? That low hum of vigilance underneath the happiness — scanning, waiting, not quite letting yourself land in the good — is one of the quietest and most exhausting forms of anxiety there is. In this episode, Monique names it, traces it to its roots, and offers a way to start actually inhabiting your own life instead of standing guard outside of it.
That quiet voice that says everyone else has it sorted and you’re the only one winging it? It has a name — and it’s not the truth about you. In this episode, Monique unpacks the impostor phenomenon, why it affects the most capable people the hardest, and what’s actually underneath the fear of being found out. This one will make you feel less alone and more honest with yourself all at once.
If you’ve ever been in the middle of a panic attack and didn’t know what was happening to your body, this episode is for you. Monique breaks down what a panic attack actually is — not as a sign that something is wrong with you, but as your nervous system doing exactly what it was designed to do — and walks you through what genuinely helps in the moment. This is the episode you’ll want to send to someone who’s scared and doesn’t know where to start.
If you’ve spent your life being told you’re too sensitive, this episode is for you. Monique explores the research behind high sensitivity — why roughly one in five people are wired to feel and process the world more deeply — and why the problem was never the sensitivity itself. It was the shame we learned to wrap around it. This isn’t about fixing how you feel. It’s about finally understanding it.
You love them. You’d do anything for them. So why does an hour with certain family members leave you more drained than a twelve-hour work day? In this episode, Monique explains the real reason the people closest to us have the most power to undo us — and it has nothing to do with weakness or immaturity. If you’ve ever driven home from a family gathering wondering what just happened to you, this one is for you.
There’s something you did — maybe years ago, maybe more recently — and no matter how much time passes, you can’t seem to put it down. In this episode, Monique unpacks why self-forgiveness is so much harder than we’re told it should be, and what’s really keeping you locked in self-punishment. This isn’t about excusing what happened. It’s about finally understanding the difference between guilt that teaches you something and shame that just keeps you stuck.
It’s been years, and something can still catch you off guard and knock the wind out of you. This episode is for the part of you that’s been quietly ashamed of still feeling it — grief, heartbreak, an old loss — long after you think you’re supposed to be done. There is no timeline. There never was. And this episode explains why.
You already know you’re too hard on yourself. You’ve known it for years. But knowing it hasn’t made it stop — because the real reason behind that relentless inner critic isn’t what most people think. This episode goes underneath the self-criticism to where it actually comes from, and what it would take to finally change your relationship with the voice that never lets you rest.
A dark or disturbing thought arrived out of nowhere and now you can’t stop wondering what it says about you. This episode is the conversation most people never get to have: what intrusive thoughts actually are, why they happen to the most conscientious people, and why the thought itself is not the problem. You are not your worst thought — and this episode will help you actually believe that.
You’ve told yourself a hundred times to stop caring what people think. You know, logically, that you can’t control what anyone thinks of you. And yet — the worry is still there, shaping decisions, stealing sleep, quietly running the show. This episode is about why it’s so hard to actually stop, what your brain is really trying to protect you from, and the shift that finally loosens its grip.
Here are a few of my most popular podcast episodes:
Everything Will Be Alright : Manifesting Reality With Your Thoughts
This can be so hard for us to believe. However, when we do, we end up making wiser problem-solving decisions.
Fly Me To The Moon : Why Small Gestures Matter
It can be easy for us to think that we have to contribute in significant ways to make a difference. It couldn’t be further from the truth.
A Reflection On Depression
This podcast is about coping with negative emotions and thoughts. However, it also discusses depression. It is in response to a question. I hope it is helpful.
